I'm a father of 2. If not for my mother in law I would have gone insane by now. Way harder than 1. 1 was mainly hard because we had no idea what we were doing. With 1 it is pretty easy for a parent to take over while the other rests. Not so with 2 kids.

Dealing with a rowdy toddler and a puking newborn at the same time is draining in a way that is impossible to describe.