It is funny, my personality traits align well with this article. I have given out very similar advice to others from time to time. It is funny but opportunity does really shine on those who have a positive outlook on life. I was once told that I was naive for looking at the positive aspects of people and not holding their flaws against them.

It was painful because it was part of an, I am dumping you speech from a woman that I loved and who believed that I was always going to be a pipe dreaming looser. She never believed in any of my ventures and thought that I was an idiot who just did not get that there where crappy people out there.

No matter how hard I tried I could never convince her that it was a philosophical view of the world and that while I knew there where negative people, I had to be above it or would be consumed by it. Part of being above it is assuming people are good natured until they prove you wrong. I have been blessed with so much opportunity by believe that there where people like me.

The best advice I was ever given was right after this event by my grandfather in which he told me, never compromise your values and never get jaded, once you do, you start to repel good people and close the door on opportunity.